That can be a challenge, but there are larger diapers on the market that are very good. Do you by chance know your waist and/or hip measurements? I'd be happy to look around for you. If you don't want to say your measurements here, feel free to email privately.
I'm a 53 year old disabled mother. We use the Tranquility products. the boosters, bed pads and ATN briefs. I'm a size medium to large. normally We use the overnight booster pads and large overnight briefs to get Me through the night.
We get everything. Through a local home health care company. That's how our insurance operates and How My caregivers are refered through. ATN is short for All Through The Night. Its a overnight brief. Which We also use in the mornings or if I get out of the house for any period of time. Which is not often these days. The regular tranquility briefs also work fine if they can be changed more often or You are not having bowel events.