Having the exact same problem. The search for the right products is exhausting. I hope that you have resolved the issue for yourself and would like to share what you are currently doing so that I may also benefit from your experience. I currently only use pads but am going to investigate pull-ups. Currently, I only sleep about 4 hours a night, with pad changes every hour. By two or three I'm finished with trying to sleep as it only stresses me waking-up wet and having to change my bed clothing. it is actually 3am right now.
